I have lived near the ocean for most of my life. I love the water, especially the Gulf of Mexico. With the waves lapping the surface over and over and a horizon that stretches on and on; here I am…
In December of 2016 I faced having Christmas in a post-infidelity world. I was still raw; I was only four months from D-day, and only two weeks from discovering who his affair partner was (one of my very closest friends)….
When my husband announced out of the blue on a sunny afternoon in August that he had not been faithful, I immediately went into shock. I did not know at the time that this was why I felt light-headed, had…
It was August, and we had just celebrated our twentieth wedding anniversary three months earlier. From the outside, everything in our life looked positive. His business was doing well, our children were happy in school and outside activities, I was…
A few weeks ago my husband and I ended our therapeutic separation and came back together. Ay yi yi. I am a still somewhat of a mess, but after all this work, I have learned to accept that and be…
Holidays can be a struggle when you are living with a difficult situation in your marriage. Valentine’s Day can be a huge trigger. You may be with your spouse, you may not be. I’m not sure which is harder. They…
Hi! This is where I blog about how the effects of infidelity converge with being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Read More
Jane
