Even thought it has been three and a half years since the disclosure of the affair, the path to forgiveness is a work in progress. I have spent much time on my knees, and hours doing research in a quest…
Guys. This is your article. This is hands down one of the best articles I have ever read on the subject of Infidelity and how it can happen to a faithful member. I would love for this article to get…
This morning the Church announced alternate arrangements for conference due to the Covid-19 virus. It got me thinking about conference, and then thinking about how conference has influenced my own healing. In the October 2019 session, there were several messages…
When we are plunged into the world of limbo, uncertainty, trauma, and fear, everything we thought we knew to be true tends to disappear. The future is hazy and uncertain. It seems to evaporate before our eyes. No longer do…
In December of 2016 I faced having Christmas in a post-infidelity world. I was still raw; I was only four months from D-day, and only two weeks from discovering who his affair partner was (one of my very closest friends)….
“You are not defined by your darkest hour. You are greater than what has been stolen from you. It is never too late to heal. It is never too late to make a fresh start. It is never too late…
Friends, I have to apologize. I took a big break here from posting. And my only defense is heartache. A pattern of mine is withdrawing when things are hard. And it’s been hard. So I have been neglecting my little…
I began this journey with pretty much no resources. Church leadership who meant well but didn’t know how to offer support and met with us individually or together almost never. Mostly terrible experiences with LDS therapy, and thankfully God ended…
Last night was a really really bad night. What made it more difficult is that I’ve had two GREAT weeks, which perhaps gave me a false sense of security. Weeks where I felt happy all through my being, was engaged…
When my husband announced his long-term affair to me, the bottom of my world dropped out. Everything I thought was real was not. Everything I knew I could count on, I could not. I plunged headfirst into the depths of…
Hi! This is where I blog about how the effects of infidelity converge with being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Read More
Jane
